“The best way to measure how much you’ve grown isn’t by inches or the number of laps you can now run around the track, or even your grade point average — though those things are important, to be sure. It’s what you’ve done with your time, how you’ve chosen to spend your days, and whom you’ve touched this year. That, to me, is the greatest measure of success.”
R.J. Palacio
How do you measure the impact you have had on the lives of others? It’s certainly easy to measure tangible things like those mentioned above, and I agree that they are definitely important, but what the impact of a kind word, a simple smile, a display of genuine concern for another person?
I would bet that most people will never be aware of the positive impact that they have had my life. I can think of many specific examples where the actions of another have had profound impact on who I am as a person today. They weren’t trying to impact me, they were living and behaving in accordance with their deepest beliefs, choosing how they spent their time, and in so doing they touched my life.
When I read this quote I immediately thought of a video that a good friend shared with me earlier this week.
[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4OAAJwnMNRQ&w=560&h=315]
These “God Moments” or “Shoulder Taps” are so powerful and so easy to overlook in today’s hyper busy and always connected and digitally measured world. It makes me step back and think about how so much of life today is spent measuring success in “likes,” “favorites,” and “retweets.” The real measure of success is positively impacting the lives of others and ultimately it is being being measured, just not by me…
