“If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, you wouldn’t sit for a month.”
Are you honest enough with yourself to be able to deliver that kick? Can you take 100% ownership and accountability and then do something with it?
Change begins by taking responsibility. Period. If you don’t like something, change it. Don’t bitch, complain, or moan. No one, and I mean no one, wants to hear that crap. It isn’t anyone else’s fault. It’s not the fault of the cosmos or the situation. Dig deep, understand where you contributed, deal with it. If you don’t, then you are going to owe yourself yet another kick…