Redefine “winning…”

“Keep strong, if possible. In any case, keep cool. Have unlimited patience. Never corner an opponent, and always assist him to save face. Put yourself in his shoes – so as to see things through his eyes. Avoid self-righteousness like the devil – nothing is so blinding.”

B. H. Liddell Hart

How many of the statements above meet your current definition of “winning?”

So often we view winning as “making someone else lose.” What if, instead, we were able to apply the statements above as rules for wining? How would it look and feel if we did all of these things every time we “won?”