“The best way to persuade people is with your ears – by listening to them.”
There is a marked difference between hearing and listening. To hear is to acknowledge the content that others are seeking to share. To listen, well, that means that you desire to understand why they need to share it. You are seeking to learn their view of the world through empathy and understanding.
John Maxwell stated that “leadership is influence.” The key to building influence is not built on fostering an ability to hear but instead is predicated on nurturing a deep desire and ability to listen genuinely. Only then can you possibly begin to persuade…