“Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.”
Given the author of this quote the first thing that I thought of of course was the physical process of working out and strengthening your body through exercise. In order for the muscles to be stronger they must be used and strained; only then will they grow back stronger. Think of the ‘day after’ feeling when you have had a great workout and your body is sore. That soreness is the body rebuilding after “hardship” and an indication that strength is building. What a great feeling.
Why don’t we approach life the same way? We want everything to be easy. As a rule people desire no hardships, no challenges, no struggles. In today’s Instagram world everything has to be staged and we envy those with “perfect” lives. We never see the private struggles and when those struggles happen to us far too often there is a victim mentality vs. leaning in and embracing the suck knowing that you will emerge on the other side far far better.
You have to tear down the entrenched positions of the moment so you can be prepared for the future. If you are struggling today with anything think of this reframing question. Instead of “why me?” Think, “what am I being prepared for?” Struggle builds the muscle of life.